r/cats 4h ago

Mourning/Loss Saying goodbye to our 24 year old baby

We’re saying goodbye to our sweet baby tomorrow. We’ve spent the past week with her, letting her eat whatever she wants, hugging her, and crying. She had her 24th birthday on the 3rd, and things went downhill so fast after that. Personality wise, she’s her amazing self. But her arthritis is so bad. I know this is the right thing for her, but my heart is so broken. I’ve had her for over half my life. She’s been my best friend for so long. I just don’t know how to say goodbye. *I just wanted to add the junk food is from this morning. She has always had a very healthy diet.
Edited to add her name is Foosa ❤️ Thank you so much to everyone for your love and support. I’m reading all your comments and crying.
I know I didn’t go into a whole lot of detail, but her arthritis is so bad that she can’t hold herself steady to eat anymore. She falls over when walking sometimes, or gives up all together and just lays down. We tried laser treatments last month, and it helped a little bit. But she took a sudden turn right after her birthday. Since it got so bad, I have been pushing her around the house in her stroller so she can always be with us. Making this decision is the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Seeing her like this, when she’s always been so active and happy, broke my heart for her. Shes so tired all the time now, and I can see how much pain she’s in.

21.7k Upvotes

393 comments sorted by

u/trendingtattler 3h ago

This post has hit /r/all

Please remember the human and participate with subreddit rules in mind. Do not tell people how they should raise their cats.

r/cats rules can be found here

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

2.2k

u/Willowrosephoenix 3h ago

Is all for me?? You don’t have to defend the junk food. Every picture shows how loved she is and to make it to 24?!

It is never enough time but you’ve given her an amazing life

429

u/biffish 3h ago

And those big 'ol pupils! She's so excited! 😻 Beautiful kitty, OP.

108

u/givememelodrama 2h ago

There needs to be a subreddit for when cats pupils go round (if there isn’t one already)

11

u/Levelofconcerns 2h ago

I could have sworn there was one called r/sharkeyes for this, but I guess I am mistaken.

→ More replies (1)
→ More replies (1)

51

u/thisisaskew 2h ago

Yeah, I think we can assume she ate relatively healthily for 24 years. lol

15

u/fa6uumm 48m ago

Junk? That’s a taste of heaven she’s well deserved!🥹💖 I can’t imagine how hard it is to loose her after 24 years.💔

4

u/iagroeg 58m ago

r/attackeyes? The subreddit for big cartoon pupils. She's adorable.

→ More replies (1)

1.7k

u/PunkinPancakes 4h ago

Sweet baby girl. I just know she's had the best life.

455

u/Nickel62 3h ago edited 3h ago

The destination is same for all of us.

It's about the journey - the laughs, the tears and the memories you make along the way.

And sweet baby girl here had one of the better journeys with awesome company. So proud of the both of them.

51

u/miocchidesu 2h ago

This made me cry. You're absolutely right. I'm so happy for this cat and so sad for the care takers. Its going to be so hard on us when we lose any of our babies. I just want to make their lives full with us in it while they're here. It's so special to be the one who gets to say good bye to them before they go. My heart really goes out to OP.

→ More replies (2)
→ More replies (4)

489

u/TTStardust 4h ago

I’m so sorry. It’s such a hard decision to make. We just put our tuxedo boy down last week and I kept reading that a week early is better than a day late. It looks like you gave her an amazing life. 24 is fantastic! Best to you

41

u/MethadonianMama 3h ago

Painfully accurate

→ More replies (1)

315

u/ass_smacktivist 3h ago edited 3h ago

😭

I’m actually literally crying. She’s so beautiful. I’m so sorry. That’s a lot of years for a kitty. You must have taken wonderful care of her. It’s such a sad day when we have to say goodbye to them.

She looks fly af in those sunglasses.

55

u/LostInNvrLand 3h ago

I came here to say exactly this.
Crying and those glasses on her were a gem.

17

u/Cass_Cat952 3h ago

The glasses 🥹😭😭😭

17

u/NervrSprout 2h ago

Might be because I have a 20 year old of my own (still very spry and healthy!) but yeah I'm a blubbering mess here as well... Think the amount of love it must have gotten to live for 24 years. Bless <3

250

u/Badkitty138 4h ago

24 years is amazing!
I am sure you have many beautiful and happy memories of this special kitty!

48

u/MethadonianMama 3h ago

She is a lucky girl to have been your overlord for a quarter of a century. You loved her very much and it shows. She knows how much you love her, she loves you more than anything.

If you haven't yet, maybe you want to get her paw prints 🐾 as a keepsake. Cats are Angels with fur, she will always be with you.

183

u/PegasusWrangler 3h ago

24 years is a blessing, wow, may we all get as long

→ More replies (1)

86

u/raybreezer 3h ago edited 1h ago

24 years! Holy moly! Foosa is a Legend! I know there will be fanfare for her when she crosses the Rainbow Bridge. She’s going to have all the past kitties giving her a standing ovation for being so amazing and having a life so well lived. Our Spike will be there too, and I know he will be happy to show her around. I hope that they become very good friends, somewhere over the Rainbow.

You’re a legend too OP. You gave Foosa such a great life, and she knows how much she is loved. You can tell from these pictures alone that she has been spoiled by you and treated so well.

I’m really sorry, OP. This will be hard, but I know you know it’s her time. She looks so beautiful for her age, you’ve really taken good care of her. I know it doesn’t take away the pain, but know you’ve done the best you could for her.

Rest easy, Foosa. Please say hi to Spike from me when you get there. Be strong OP 💔💔💔

Edit:

OP, can you tell us your Baby’s name?

57

u/AgeMaterial6655 4h ago

Wow! You took very good care of her. She looks super sweet ❤️ sorry for your loss

50

u/SuspectLarge 4h ago

You made the choice that was in her best interest, even though it broke your heart. You honored her, friend. And I am so certain she knows that.

32

u/EntertainerNo1440 3h ago

24 years old is amazing, and it’s clear you have given her a wonderful life. Saying goodbye will be heartbreaking. I’m glad you were able to spoil her this last week; she looks like she enjoyed every minute of it. May her memory be a blessing.

24

u/encore412 3h ago

I’m crying. I lost my dilute tortie in June, she was 20. Luna Girl will welcome your sweet baby over the bridge.

8

u/J5892 2h ago edited 1h ago

We lost our Terra earlier this year to lymphoma.
She'll be watching Luna welcome the new kitty through a hole in a box in the distance.

22

u/babyrothko 3h ago

What a beautiful life you have given them ❤️

24

u/nerdinredlipstick American Shorthair 3h ago

She had 24 years filled with love and care which is incredible! I'm so sorry for your loss but know that you gave her the most incredible life and she'll always love you to the moon & back because of it.

14

u/Purrrkittymeow 3h ago

Upvoting all these well wishes. Bless this kitty with a wonderful afterlife. It looked like you did an amazing job giving her all she deserved here in this life.

12

u/mushbee1 3h ago

You’re blessed to have experienced 24 years with your loved furball.

Its a bit cringe but this quote does bring me some comfort

“Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.”

12

u/labfam1010 3h ago

I hope this brings you a bit of peace… it helped us a lot when my family lost our cat bro. Clearly you have been an absolutely top-notch kitty parent. I’m so sorry and we are sending you strength for tomorrow.

3

u/Mission_Light_183 3h ago

😫😢😢😢😢

11

u/Good_Presentation763 3h ago

So sorry to hear this. She’s lived a wonderful life with people who truly love her. Feline arthritis is rough. Sending you purrs and headbuts. Such a sweet girl!

11

u/riverdaisylemonpeace 3h ago

I'm so sorry.

9

u/OGLegato_sama 4h ago

So sorry for your loss, 🫂

9

u/optimal_center 3h ago

She made it to the ripe old age of 24. Remarkable. I’m sorry for your loss. This has to be hitting you really hard. 🙏🏼❤️‍🩹

7

u/Terrible_Towel8095 4h ago

So very sorry to hear

6

u/goldenlightbeam 3h ago

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

6

u/Hopeful_Gur423 3h ago

I’m so sorry to hear about your sweet baby.

7

u/FirstTimeFaja 3h ago

What a sweet baby im so sorry shes beautiful

7

u/A_la_luna_me_again 2h ago

This breaks my heart for both of you because you have to know you mean just as much to her and she hates to go. It's not a lie but this loss is going to hurt, a lot. My soul cat passed six weeks prior to her twentieth in 2016 and some days it still hurts.

Take time to grieve her however you need to and for however long it takes. Never listen to the idiots of this world that will coldly tell you she was just a cat. She was so much more. Find a way to honor her that is meaningful to you. Make scrapbook, frame some of her favorite things in a shadow box, construct a little altar dedicated to her,...whatever your heart desires.

Between hello and goodbye, so much love was shared. At some point that feeling of loss will be comforted by that special love you shared. I hope that love keeps you warm and helps mend your broken heart.

Everything came full circle for me years after when an old friend gifted me a tiny kitten. She wasn't a replacement for what I lost but me giving a home and loving my sweet Indigo for me was one more way to honor my Rhiannon.

My sincerest condolences

12

u/DKat1990 3h ago

I'm so sorry for your loss and have great respect for you for making this decision to let her rest instead of putting off YOUR pain by letting her suffer 🌈🐱

5

u/Pjk2530144 3h ago

Frosting face 💕

6

u/mintbacon 3h ago

Please let us know her name

5

u/throwaway01828374 3h ago

What’s her name? Hugs to you and your baby, you gave her the best life 🧡✨🫂

5

u/theflush1980 3h ago

She received 24 years of love and kindness from you. You should be proud that you made her life wonderful until the very end. I know it hurts, but you’re doing the right thing. I hope you find some comfort in that. Lots of love ❤️

5

u/OklahomaRose7914 3h ago

What a gorgeous girl who's had the blessing of living such a long life with her wonderful humans. I know she'll be waiting patiently for you to join her. Until then, cherish in your heart every memory you made with her.

5

u/missymoo3636 3h ago

I’m so sorry. This post has made me cry. I can’t begin to imagine how much pain you’re feeling. Big hugs ❤️

5

u/hotdolphin21 Russian Blue 3h ago

Wow 24 is amazing, it’s hard no matter what age. But I think when you get such a long time with them, it can be harder to let go.

My grandmother talked my parents, into taking a stray, she was feeding. Neglected to tell them she was pregnant. My parents let my brother and I keep a kitten. She was about 4 months shy of 22, and just passed from old age. She stopped drinking and eating, a few weeks prior and we knew it was time. My parents were away when she passed. It was just me home, so I laid her in the bed, and would check on her hourly, her breathing got slower and slower. I just loved on her, and told her it was ok to go. She waited till I was out of the room to pass. Which from my understanding, they tend to do that. I was in my late 20’s, so at that time I had her for 3/4 of my life.

Know she had a good life full of love, and she’ll always be in your heart and memories. 🫂🌈

6

u/thedoors27 3h ago

Great photos! No matter the length of time they always leave us too soon 😭

5

u/WaggleFinger 2h ago

24 is an amazing run for a cat. She's feline Betty White, which is the highest compliment one could give. We should all wish our fur babies to live such a long life surrounded by those who love them.

We're all deeply sorry for your loss, and I know this will feel hollow in the immediate aftermath, but you gave her the best life she could have asked for. Jackpot cosmic lottery to be part of your family.

4

u/cannibalqueef 2h ago

Omfg I can’t stop crying… rip sweet meow meow.

4

u/Professional_Cup199 Tabbycat 2h ago

Wow... 24 AMAZING years with this baby is truly a blessing

6

u/Peachyrae03 2h ago

I’m so sorry for your loss 💗 24 is an incredible life. I can’t imagine all the love she had. Wishing you peace as you go through this difficult time

4

u/laeriel_c 2h ago

Rest well sweet baby 🥹 lil cutie

5

u/pearloonie 2h ago

Her face in the first picture! What a beautiful girl and clearly so beloved. I’m so very very sorry for your loss.

8

u/sharkarmycrafts 3h ago

May she hunt at Bastet's side and ride in Freyja's chariot until you meet her in the adventure that comes after this one. ❤️🫂

5

u/Ray1987 3h ago

We humans trade 12 years on average, in your case 24 years (seriously, how wonderful!) of love, to be absolutely crushed from it, but you know that trade off is worth it, as it even is for the 12 year olds. You loved that cat and it knew it! It's going to suck without that little one. But you can know, you were there for her!

Grieve the little one, but know their life was so much better having you in it!

4

u/IloveKitty2 3h ago

My condolences to you and your family 😢. Sending comforting thoughts your way.

4

u/David0ne86 3h ago

Omg I'm so sorry for your loss. And yes as you said, you made the right choice. We shouldn't keep them around just because of our selfishness and continue to make them be in pain.

Chin up, and as cliche it might sound, celebrate your memories you had with her rather than mourn her. You gave her the best life possible. Your cat is in the 1% that go past 20 years old. It means you were great to her and she was as happy as she could be. Stay strong.

3

u/cerealnsushi 3h ago

24 years is truly a blessing. She most definitely had the best life growing together with you. Stay strong OP, she will always be your best friend <3

5

u/kickrushc 3h ago

Omg I have a 19 year old torti. I am 29 and have had her for the majority of my life. This made me cry. Sending love!

4

u/Smooth_Development48 3h ago

What a sweet farewell party. Big hugs for you.

4

u/Chance-Technician776 3h ago

This made me tear up. I'm so sorry for your loss of your baby. I know you'll cherish those memories you had with her.

4

u/Apostle_of_Fire 3h ago

What a long and amazing life for you kitty! I'm dreading it myself for my remaining one, she's soon to be 14, and I hope she can go another 10 years in a healthy state. That is an amazing lifetime for a cat. Vitual hugs to you and your kitty, for a life well llived. I know it won't be easy, I've lost my own, but they live on with us. If you have tattoos, consider getting one of them, if not, they will still be with you forever and in many other random people's hearts. 💚

4

u/oddchihuahua 3h ago

24 years is almost unbelievable.

Just remember her how she always was those 24 years, and not how she was in the end. I got a 5 year old tux from the shelter thinking I’d have 10-12 years or so with her…feline leukemia took her four years to the day I brought her home.

Sometimes I get stuck thinking about her and I just try to force myself to remember her when she was thriving and happy, and not how quickly it ended.

4

u/lefifthmarauder 2h ago

You were both so lucky to have been so deeply loved by one another 🤍

3

u/thedonjefron69 2h ago

I can only dream of any of our boys making it to 24. Three of them are 8 as of this spring, and our new unexpected adoption from June is 1.

24 shows not only how well you fed and took care of her, but how much your love for her was worth her living for. It’s truly such a blessing but bittersweet how much love these creatures give us but for a relatively short time to us.

5

u/pineapplepizza8705 2h ago

She looks very loved

3

u/Visible_Detective268 2h ago

Here I am crying on a Friday morning! 24 years is amazing. She looks absolutely amazing and well-cared for. I know it's never enough time and it's difficult to know when to let go. Sending you love and healing.

5

u/Alarming_Mastodon505 2h ago

what a life she has had!!

4

u/Kam_lover 2h ago

No…😭💔 It’s so heartbreaking…

4

u/LastEntertainment787 2h ago

You're showing her how very much you love her by doing what's best for her. You've had a long life together, filled with joy, love and laughter. Which is all we can ask for. My deepest condolences. 💜💜💜

4

u/Scary_Software_9632 2h ago

24 is incredible. Well done for all the love and happiness you've given her to reach this age.

4

u/Brilliant-Potato-218 2h ago

sweet one! fly high baby ❤️❤️

4

u/iluvjyb 2h ago

What a sweetie ❤️ I hope you can enjoy your final moments with her

4

u/dpx 2h ago

What a wonderful life your baby must have lived! wow, 24!! <3 Do you mind sharing her name with us?
So sorry for your loss, you can tell how loved she was by you and your family <3

4

u/Open_Mortgage_4645 1h ago

24 is a hell of number! Her age is a testament to the love and care you gave her, and the exquisite life you provided to her. I'm sorry her time came to an end. It's the most painful part of loving a little furball. But she's on to a new adventure across the Rainbow Bridge, and I have no doubt she'll bring all the love you gave to the other side. Peace and love to you and your family during this painful time. ❤️

4

u/adamska_w 50m ago

I'm a 32 year old man reading this in my corporate fluorescent lit cubicle and I'm trying to keep the tears in my eyes. I don't believe in God, I don't think I do. But, I'm hoping he/she is real just so you can be with your Foosa again. Just so you can see her when it's your time as well.

I hope for nothing but good things for you. You and your family and Foosa.

"I may be godless. I may be faithless. I still pray."

  • Jack Nicholson.

6

u/St_Know_It_All 3h ago

Give her catnip and treats!

She was deeply loved! She will meet you in heaven, God willing!

→ More replies (1)

3

u/Dietotex 3h ago

I sympathise with your grief

3

u/Nick-or-Treat 3h ago

Good kitty. May you rest in peace lil buddy.

3

u/Good_Perspective9290 3h ago

She’s so beautiful, and you must have so many memories, so my thoughts are with you.

3

u/Designer-Back-9087 3h ago

24 is an amazing life for a kitty. We can all wish for such a long time with our companions. She looks overwhelmed with gratitude in first pick. I’m sorry for your loss.

3

u/Hbic_in_training 3h ago

My sweet girl Baby will be waiting for her on the other side 😻💔 I'm so sorry.

3

u/The-CatCat-1 3h ago

I am so, so very sorry 😢. She’s a beautiful, lovely girl who has lived an incredible life that was on possible thanks to you 💗. I’m sending you my love and my most sincere condolences. Please know that you and and your precious baby are in my thoughts and prayers tonight 🙏🏼.

3

u/Aggressive_Height152 3h ago

What a beautiful angel ♥️

3

u/ZV2Cox 3h ago

Sending love your way! My heart is with you

3

u/1900sMom 3h ago

What a beautiful girl. I’m so sorry for your loss. What wonderful care you must have taken of her. 💜

3

u/First-Enthusiasm-679 3h ago

May her memory be a comfort. 🌻 She was so loved.

3

u/_ismellbeef_ Void 3h ago

i’m so sorry op :( she’s a whole year older than me which is crazy she’s lived such a long and beautiful life with you. hugs friend 🫂

3

u/parking-lot-seagulls 3h ago

I hope you find each other in ever lifetime

3

u/RDS80 3h ago

RIP. Always loved and never forgotten.

3

u/Quiet-Barracuda-1698 3h ago

well i’m crying

3

u/Decorated_Emergency 3h ago

She's so beautiful l. I'm so sorry. Thank you for sharing these photos with us. ❤️

3

u/Technical_Introvert0 3h ago

That cat older than me 🥲

3

u/One_Percentage_644 3h ago

She looks so curious looking at her 24th Candle! Clearly loved and won at life, thank you for giving this innocent baby a good life I'm sure she loves you like you'll always love her. Even when she is gone, that does not mean she's no longer a part of your life, she always will be

3

u/EffectiveHoney1081 3h ago edited 2h ago

What a sweetheart! I wish they would live longer but then it would only prolong the agony. I try to remember all the silly things my beloved pets would do. Hold her as tight as she will allow before she goes over the rainbow bridge! Cry as much as you need to. Give her a little boop on her nose for me. I will never forget this beautiful senior girl.

3

u/animeangelmia 3h ago

In the first photo her eyes are as big as saucers with galaxies sparkling in her eyes. There’s an endless universe in them that clearly told many stories and held every memory. She’ll watch over you patiently as you were patient with her for the past 24 years. Don’t be sad that she’ll be gone be happy for all the time you had with her. I dream that my cat will be with me as long as your darling was with you even though he is only four. Cherish the precious memories you have with her as I know on the other side of that rainbow bridge she’ll be boasting about what a wonderful human butler you were to her.

3

u/Catsooey 2h ago

Those are such beautiful pictures.🥺 Seeing her at the table celebrating her 24th birthday, with all those treats. But it’s so sad knowing it’s her last birthday celebration. This really made me tear up. What an amazing life you had together. Living to 24 is an amazing achievement, but it’s so hard to say goodbye. She’ll be with you always, living on in your heart and soul for the rest of your journey. Sending out love and prayers to both of you. ❤️🐾

3

u/Pineapple-lumpz 2h ago

24 amazing years together that is amazing

3

u/Tokenlopez 2h ago

I can tell she’s such a special kitty 🫶 sending you and her a big hug.
What a privilege that you both found each other in this life 🥹

3

u/Existing-Metal4098 1h ago

Thats like losing a family member of 24 years. So heartbroken for you but she must have had a wonderful life

3

u/oppsidrewit 49m ago

Aww, Foosa wore glasses like we didn't see her tears. I'm so sorry, she is so beautiful, so pure

3

u/Random19370 46m ago

This post made me want to cry. It’s a hard decision, I’ve had to put down two cats bcs we believe it was the right choice to make after surgery and other treatments failed. You gave her an amazing life and she will always live on in your heart. ❤️

3

u/penny-wise Calico 40m ago

Big hugs. She is a beautiful girl.

3

u/0c74r1n3 38m ago

Hey Foosa you beautiful girl, thanks for being the best friend and greatest companion for one of us clumsy humans ♥️ 24 wonderful years of love and fluff and awesomeness, you are a real queen!
Rest light and catch all the sparkles! Please say meow to Oscar and Felix and Fry and my little queen Leela…you all made our lives better as we could ever imagine.

3

u/Satinsbestfriend 38m ago

The hardest thing is being strong enough to let them go so they aren't suffering

3

u/AdLocal1490 35m ago

A very clearly well loved kitty. You did a good job. Gave her the best possible life she was ever going to have.

3

u/PaulFleming75 34m ago

She is so beautiful. You have given her an amazing life.

3

u/Own-Strategy-6617 33m ago

I wish every kitty in this world to experience a love like this🤍

3

u/stovetopteatowel 31m ago

That face. Those eyes. I’m crying now. I’m so sorry for your loss.

3

u/ElonMusksRightNipple 28m ago

To love is to let go at the right time. I know how hard it is, but your sweet baby will thank you for putting her first ❤️ Sending lots of love in this hard time

6

u/J0vita 3h ago

I’m so sorry. You are doing a very selfless thing and she clearly had the best, best life. What a cute girl.

2

u/Limp_Butterscotch633 3h ago

I'm so very sorry. That's the hardest decision to make, but, you know it's what's best for your fur baby. 😞 😔 😿

2

u/usagiSuteishi 3h ago

Wait is her name Macy?

2

u/LinusRiamus 3h ago

WoW, 24 years is a hell of a ride. Godspeed 🙏

2

u/West-Application-375 Void 3h ago

24!!! She did so well. So did you 💕 rest easy sweet girl

2

u/_thatgirlfelicia 3h ago

Saying goodbye is so so hard but it sounds like you’ve given her a wonderful long life and lots of love and comfort even in her last days.

2

u/ExperienceNeeded7 3h ago

Wow. What a wonderful life you gave her. Nothing but love. I’m sorry for the loss of your girl. It doesn’t matter how old they are when they pass because no amount of time with them is ever enough. You did great by her and you should be very proud.

2

u/sunshineTucson 3h ago

A heart full of memories.

2

u/HydroV20 3h ago

Sleep in peace! 🐈 🌈 🕊️ God bless!

2

u/No_Trouble9808 3h ago

Awww. God Bless ❣️🙏🏻

2

u/social-delimma 3h ago

I am sorry, I know it’s not easy and no matter what I say, or do, it’s you who must carry the pain. I wish I could help xoxo

2

u/sillystorm28 3h ago

shes had a life well loved!! I gave my sweet girl cheese as a treat here and there in her old age and knew it was time when it no longer tempted her.. I still dont regret letting her go, even if I still miss her terribly!

2

u/Cashew-Miranda 3h ago

Im sorry hun. But she’ll be free of pain and that’s what’s important. Remember the good days, not the bad

2

u/cancerbby777 3h ago

I’m tearing up reading this 🥺 What a sweetheart. Im sure she has had a wonderful life with you. I’m so sorry 😞

2

u/jokumar 3h ago

💔

2

u/ihatetheplaceilive 3h ago

2 minnows to my cat in their memory tonight.

2

u/FremontTreeFinder 3h ago

She’s amazing. 🧡

2

u/BeautifulEven5382 3h ago

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

2

u/fortyfourcaliber 3h ago

Omg my heart

2

u/Thin_Tangerine_6271 3h ago

Goodbye to your precious baby angel, tell her we love her...I'm so sorry for your loss

2

u/Matti_Titi1540 3h ago

Sorry for your loss 😿😿 24 years what a beautiful blessing 🙏🏻

2

u/brendan87na 3h ago

24 years is such an amazing time together :) I am envious you got to spend so much time with her!

2

u/Vegetable-Weekend427 3h ago

The fact that she was with you for so long is a testament to how much you loved and cared for her, and how much love she had for you🫂

2

u/lifeisdopeasfuck 3h ago

What a beautiful girl. 24 years is crazy. I’m sure you gave her the absolute best life ❤️❤️❤️

2

u/Capable-Sink-8706 Calico 3h ago

Wow she lived a long loved life, my condolences op biggest hugs to you.

2

u/Reasonable-Self7809 3h ago

❤️❤️

2

u/Dry_Source666 3h ago

Goodbye. We will miss you!

2

u/Unlimited_Giose 3h ago

You can tell she has lived a really happy life at your side, and that's quite beautiful my friend

I hope you can keep pushing on these rough times, good luck my friend

2

u/pb89 3h ago

Beautiful Tortie girl. I’m sure she’s had a life full of love and happiness. And that’s what she’ll always remember.

2

u/Wankeritis 3h ago

When we found out our elderly dog had cancer and had only a little while left, she had so many tasty snacks before we said goodbye.

I'm sorry OP. We only get to have a little while with them, but our lives would be sadder if we didn't have them at all.

2

u/Sufficient-Thing-727 3h ago

She’s my birthday twin!!! What a queen eating well

2

u/IHateItHere82 3h ago

Oh so sorry for your loss

2

u/nateo200 3h ago

I’m sorry I don’t mean to be rude by being too inquisitive but what else is wrong with her?! I know 24 years is very very old but I’m curious why you are making this choice specifically? I’m sorry this is tough, my buddy and his wife had to put down their 16 year old cat a few weeks ago.

2

u/WorldlinessSmooth815 2h ago

What a sweet baby 🥺

2

u/No_Mammoth2098 2h ago

She had the best week and best life with you. It will be okay.

2

u/Green_White_Golem 2h ago

🙏😿😢❤

2

u/UziSuzieThia 2h ago

Sweet angel darling

Deepest condolences from my cat and I.

2

u/Formal-Contest-304 2h ago

I’m crying for you. I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️

2

u/Grouchy_Following669 1h ago

Respect to you sir , 24 years of the best life this cat gets , god bless you

2

u/hukalulu 1h ago

run free to your sweet angel, and hugs to you OP. Cant imagine the pain after taking care of her and loving her for 24 years. just know that she’s now gonna be the one watching over you for years to come.

2

u/YouMUSTvote 1h ago

Foosa had the best life ever, an amazing life full of love and being cherished.

I know it’ll be so hard to say so long. But she’ll be around:

I watched Interstellar for the first time last night and the reveal of how time unfolds and different dimensions fold onto each other and time synchronizes felt so right to me.

I know it’s crazy and I can’t fully explain but I’ve experienced it twice and it felt just like it.

Foosa will be around, especially when you need her. Your connection will never be broken; true love goes on eternally.

My condolences, give that sweet girl a pet from me 💔🫶 Godspeed babycat..

2

u/arcanition 1h ago

I am so sorry :(

I've had my little corgi cheddar for almost a decade now, I can't imagine how you must feel. Wishing you all the best <3 remember that Foosa will always love you and the time and love you gave her for so many years.

2

u/0CuriousCat0 1h ago

24 is incredible ❤️

2

u/Euphoric-Car4868 1h ago

Aw my heart. I said good bye to my girl I think 2 years ago now, seeing this just made me cry over her again. She was also in her 20s. It’s such a gift to have so much time together, but such a heart break. I cried for days and had to have ice packs on my head from it hurting from crying.

I hope she can go peacefully with absolutely no complications. Sending so many hugs to you. Tell her how much you love her, and tell her to come visit when she’s ready ❤️

This was a little bit before her appointment, she just wanted to go lay in her favorite spot when we were trying to get her in the cat carrier. 😔
Her name was Gigs. She was the sweetest silliest girl.

→ More replies (1)

2

u/SpecialistElephant79 59m ago

Wow! You're so lucky to have had him for 24 years! My cat lasted a good 17 years and I counted my lucky stars for that.. But you are so damn lucky! Big hugs to you ❤️ I know this won't be helpful to hear right now but I thought I could never have another cat in my life but we know have this awesome fella who is two years young, completely different character to my old cat, and we love him just as much.

2

u/YurieMurgas 53m ago

Foosa is a total Queen and she clearly had such a great life with you!

3

u/fartibutt 52m ago

I will think of cute Foosa and tell my girl about this absolute legend! Letting go is the hardest part, it is the most cruel burden but you do it all for her and her only. She will be with you forever. My 20 year old best friend took his last breath in my arms when I was 20 myself, he'd been there all my life. That was 19 years ago and I still vividly dream of him and think of him at least every second day. All the strength and love in the world to you. Your cat had the best life!!!

2

u/Dirty-girl 50m ago

I am so so sorry for your loss. I am crying with you.

2

u/kirstondoo 46m ago

Sending all the good vibes. So sorry for your loss.

2

u/askinglicense 45m ago

I teared up the moment I saw that first picture. I don’t know if I’ve ever seen eyes that fit the definition of “eyes lighting up” so beautifully and vividly. It’s like her eyes literally lit up in that moment.

I’m so sorry for your loss, but I hope you also forever remember that you *gained\* the overwhelming love, joy, silliness and overall inexplicable happiness that comes with 24 years of memories in your brain’s bank account. There’s no words, time, money or anything in this world that can ever take away all of that joy. I caught myself earlier frustrated with one of my goobers for unraveling all of the laundry off the shelf… and I didn’t even have to “choose” to, but I just started laughing. It was funny. He’s a little asshole for it, absolutely, but he looked so happy. How could I be frustrated with someone who looked so happy?! I’m laughing just writing it. I say that to say, even the frustrating silliness is still a happy memory in some ways. It’s all a blessing in the end. I hope it’s all a blessing for you.

And she’s very blessed to have gotten 24 years of love from someone who obviously spoiled the hell out of her. It’s what they deserve. After all, we exist to spoil the cats.

I’m very sorry. Albeit a total stranger, we bonded through tears and love of silly little goofballs today. Thank you for sharing this with us. 🖤🐾

2

u/Firebolt_05 43m ago

Your baby looks gorgeous, and I am so fucking proud of you for making this decision.
It's the hardest thing you can do, harder than any breakup, this is the living being that has forever been closer to you than anyone else.

I am so sorry that life goes this way, I had to say goodbye to my little baby in spring of 2025, but I was so happy once she was gone, because I didn't have to see her suffering anymore, and I know she's at peace now. This is a fucking strong show of character and morality, you didn't think about yourself, you purposefully stripped yourself of what makes you happiest so your best friend can be free.

thank you for being an amazing human, and I wish you the very best in recovering from this.

also, screw anyone criticizing the junk food or whatever. Foosa probably just had the best last days on earth ever, and I'm certain you've been taking wonderful care of her, 24 is a proud age.

much love <3

2

u/Dramatic_Buffalo7304 36m ago

Sweet dreams foosa ❤️ you deserve the very best of kitty heaven

2

u/Gullible-Cut8652 31m ago

Sending strength to all of you. Tell her you will always love her. And be kind to yourself. 🫂

2

u/catz4prezident 28m ago

No amount of time with our pets is ever enough, but 24 years is amazing. You clearly took great care of her, and gave her an amazing life. Wishing you peace during this painful time. ❤️

2

u/readingNosaladYa 28m ago

godspeed little friend

2

u/Fibercastel 25m ago

Not sure you'll find time but give her a kiss from this stranger. My cat passed a few weeks before her 19th birthday earlier this year. Like you, I knew her for more than half my life. I know we gave her the best life so I was never truly sad, just grateful. Be strong ! We're here to share some time and joy with other living things for an hour, or five decades, and you two did that well for 24 years. That won't go away.

2

u/SXAL 25m ago

24 is a really solid age. She was lucky to have you.

3

u/TR24241 3h ago

Have you tried Librela? It did wonders for my dog’s arthritis, binds to the cells or something but it gave my dog an additional 2+ years. Librela plus an injected glucosamine type medication weekly, also there’s a cannibis tincture for pain. I know you have done your best, just had to share.